Note: I have a lot of visitors find this blog post via Google search. If that’s you, welcome! Please feel free to ask a question in the comments below or e-mail me (melissad [at] signingtimeacademy [dot] com). Our baby has been helmet-free since September 2012, but I remember clearly the guilt, fear, and questions! I’m happy to share our experiences if that helps another family through it.
Our oldest daughter was a 26 week micropreemie with a myriad of health issues. Around her first birthday, her occupational therapist suggested that Addie might have torticollis (“wry neck”). I started doing research and learned a ton about torticollis, plagiocephaly, brachycephaly, and helmet therapy. Ultimately, Addie was cleared for torticollis (she just needed glasses!) and our pediatrician told us that we had missed the window for helmet therapy. As a result, our five year old has untreated “flat head syndrome”, which is really only noticeable when her hair is wet.
When our second child was born healthy at 37 weeks, I was much more aware of the flat spot on her head from birth. Babywearing was HUGE for us. Kate was only in her carseat IN the car–no stroller, bouncy chair, or swing, either. But despite our best efforts, her head was still VERY flat. At her four month well check, her pediatrician recommended helmet therapy to us and we began our nine month journey to a rounder head.
After meeting with a cranial surgeon, we were told that Kate did not require surgery (craniostynosis) and we were referred to a handful of helmet providers. At six months old, Kate received her helmet! We all expected it to be a difficult transition, but Kate had no difficulties whatsoever. We ordered cute decals from an Etsy shop and that really helped people feel comfortable asking questions about the helmet. We heard over and over again, “She has such pretty eyes!”
In no time at all, the helmet was part of our regular routine! Kate was a trooper, even in the warm summer months. We dressed her in very light clothing all summer since it didn’t take much for her head to start sweating She had no problems meeting her developmental milestones–in fact, we actually appreciated the extra protection as she learned to sit up, crawl, and stand. 🙂
Looking back on our helmet experience, I’m VERY glad that we did it. The time seemed to drag by, but it was such a short time in our lives. Her head will never be as round as other children, but we made great progress and I think that only other helmet parents would notice.
**Helmet therapy is becoming much more prevalent as doctors realize flat head syndrome is more than just a cosmetic issue–when you encounter one of these sweet babies, it’s important not to stare or give your children false information (“His mommy didn’t hold him enough. “Some babies fall down a lot.”). Comment on the helmet’s stickers or just give the parents a friendly smile.**
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